Fashion and trends are hard to keep up with, if you’re into all that kind of stuff and, to be fair, unless you are 100% secure in your likes and dislikes, it can be easy to get side-tracked when choosing a ring.
Not only that, with the explosion of social media, most people are even more self-conscious than they used to be, and even more likely to make a choice that isn’t true to themselves.
Rule numero UNO
Who cares what anybody else thinks? Well, it’s a really good question, and you’d find that everybody cares, to some degree about what others think about them, whether it’s obvious, or not.
What’s important to understand, is the underlying matter of how much you care about what others think of you, and how much of an influence you will allow others’ opinions to have on you, and your life.
That part largely sits with you, and really boils down to how much of other people’s nonsense you are prepared to entertain.
It’s a strange old world really, certainly considering that the ‘who cares’ phrase uses the word care, which, means that others should be happy for you, even if you choose some unusual engagement rings, as long as you are a decent person and happy, that’s all that they should be concerned with.
On that note, it’s worth mentioning agenda and motives, everybody’s got one, it’s just a matter of whether their agenda or motive is from a place of love, or from elsewhere, such as jealousy, or envy which can be very destructive indeed and have nothing to do with caring for you.
There is only one rule
With that out of the way, you should be able to see the benefits of not caring what anybody thinks about you, and be under no mistake, caring what people think, and being caring are two very different things, it most certainly does not make you a lesser person.
In fact, it should allow you to be even more outgoing, break the rules a little, be even bolder, and even more confident in what you do.
Constantly worrying about what others think can seriously rule some people and drain every bit of sparkle they might have once possessed. To not care, is to be free to make the choices and decisions you feel most comfortable with, such as choosing a ring for an important occasion that is inspired by nature.
How does it make you feel?
The important part about choosing clothes, jewelry, or anything for that matter, is how does it make you feel? Jewelry should make you feel a little bit special, and part of that is due to its beauty and uniqueness, even more so with items that are inspired, and created around various aspects of nature such as the weather, and seasons.
If you are somebody that likes to buck the trend then you might want to have a look into various suppliers in your area, it is quite a niche market sector now though, so make sure you put a bit of elbow grease in when it comes to your searches.
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