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Preparing for Middle School

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by RAKI WRIGHT

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Middle school is an important transitional phase in a child’s life. It’s a big deal for parents and kids alike. I have five tips on getting prepared.

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How to Prepare Yourself for Your Child Entering Middle School

As my son prepares to enter middle school this year, I think back to my middle school experience. I HATED IT! It was the year that 6th graders were supposed to be the oldest kids in elementary school. Guess what? They moved 6th grade to “middle school.”

Maybe it was different for me because girls can be so catty. I remember being picked on (and feeling betrayed by girls I thought were my friends…in favor of more popular girls) and having my heart broken for the very first time. Yes, it was all very traumatic for me. So, I’m bringing a lot of baggage into my son’s experience.

I have had to make a conscious decision NOT to discuss that with my son and allow him to experience something new and exciting, form his own opinion, and become more independent.

How to Prepare Your Child for Middle School

My son is care- and fancy-free. He’s excited to be seeing all of his friends, having a locker, and entering a new phase in his life. He’s made a lot of friends on his football team, too. Although they attended different elementary schools, they will all attend the same middle school starting in the fall.

He’s not excited about the fact that his mom signed him up for pre-AP classes and with that placement came two substantial books to read over the summer (Chasing Vermeer & The Hobbit).

Over the course of the summer, we had to make sure paperwork, supplies, and mindsets were in order.

Vaccinations

In Virginia, my son was required to have his TDAP booster before being allowed to pick up his schedule or attend the first day of classes. Thankfully we had that taken care of at his last well check up. All I had to do was pick up a form from his pediatrician documenting it.

I’m not sure what’s required in other states, like New York, for example, like at the middle schools in the Bronx. I imagine vaccination rules for schools must vary depending on location. 

School Supplies

Sixth graders are commonly required to have:

  • pencils
  • notebook paper
  • colored pencils
  • two pocket folders
  • binder
  • pencil pouch
  • highlighters
  • spiral notebook with a plastic cover
  • planner
  • tissues
  • copy paper
  • tape refills
  • glue sticks
  • dividers
  • composition notebook
  • markers
  • index cards
  • staples

Consult your school’s specifications and requirements.

Clothing

  • Tween brands can be expensive.  But, with planning, patience, and some inside tips from a former tween, you can do it. I wrote a tween clothing guide that you may find helpful.
  • With a little planning, strategic shopping, and timing, you can be clothing children inexpensively and in a jiffy.

Expectations

Talk to your child

  • Get advice from others on preparing for a new school
  • Check your child’s attitude
  • Allow independence
  • Utilize lockers
  • Expect organization
  • Discuss peer pressure
  • Talk about bullying

Visit

My son’s school visited the Middle School in the Spring, while still in 5th grade. They walked the halls, played with the lockers, and took an overall tour. We will attend the schools’ open hours during the summer so I will know a little more about what to expect. We will also participate in the “Back to School” night, usually held during the first week of school, to meet teachers and see my son in this new environment. I’ll note friends, frenemies, and potential trouble makers. 🙂

Further Resources:

Making a Smooth Transition to Middle School
What to Expect Academically in Middle School
Making the Transition

Photo Credit: Clemens v. Vogelsang

Did you enjoy middle school? How are you preparing your child?

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  1. Misty Nicole Overstreet-Roberts (The Lady Prefers To Save) says

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    Awesome article! My husband is a middle school educator, and the one supply he says kids never seem to have is a thumb drive or memory stick, for projects, papers, and the like! Also, my husband mentioned before that if parents purchased pencils during back-to-school sales, and then squirreled them away for state tests in the Spring, this would be an awesome help to teachers and PTA volunteers helping to proctor tests!

    • OutsideTheBoxMom says

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      Thanks for those tips Misty! I’ll have to get a flash drive for my son and save a box of pencils for Spring testing.

  2. Jamie @ Medium Sized Family says

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    My oldest is going into middle school this year, too (sixth grade boy like yours!). I’m more nervous than he is. He tells me it’s no big deal, especially since the 8th graders are on a separate floor. I guess we’ll see how well he adjusts next week!

  3. Megan says

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    Hello! I came over from the 36th Avenue’s Best DIY Projects party. I’m a middle school art teacher and love this list. I’d recommend following lists provided by the school and get extras whenever possible, especially during sales – binders can fall apart, pencils get broken or lost, and so on. Plus, making sure the kids get enough rest. Many kids are overworked through sports, home life, etc and really start to fade while at school due to be exhausted. On the other hand, many need that time to also connect with peers, mentors, and to stay out of the trouble. I think there’s a fine line! Being an involved parent definitely helps so the kids know they are loved.

    I was like you – I was supposed to be the big kid in school and then they opened a new middle school and we were the first ones there. However, we were the only grade the first year so it all worked out fine.

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