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7 Ways to Create the Best Surprise Birthday Party for Your Family Member

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Planning a birthday party for a loved one can be an exhilarating experience. Just imagine how happy they would be to walk into a room full of people they love.

Having somebody plan such an event with so much time and effort put into it can also make people feel cherished. However, like any party, a surprise birthday party requires a thoughtful and well-executed plan, from choosing the theme to keeping the whole thing hush-hush and everything in between. In this article, we’ll tell you about all the ways you can throw an unforgettable surprise party. So, let’s begin!

1. Select a party theme.

First off, let’s talk about the basics. The first thing you need to do is choose a theme for the party. The theme would vary immensely based on the honoree’s taste and personality, so you must ensure you know what they would like before choosing. You can go with any princess theme with tea parties and dresses, an animal safari with jungle decorations, or a superhero-themed party with superhero-themed games for kids. Adult parties would be more in tune with masquerade balls with elegant masks, an 80s retro theme to relive the nostalgia of your favorite decade, a casino night, or a Hollywood red carpet for a glamorous evening.

When setting up the party decor and props, focus on the visual elements. Choose the color, the props, and the decorations. Focus on posters and photos to liven up the party space. You can print a bunch of them and put them up on the walls. Similarly, you can explore happy birthday stock photos to use in cards or as posters. 

2. Choose the party venue.

Locations to host a birthday party are almost endless. You can have it at the honoree’s house, a park, a restaurant, or anywhere else your honoree would not expect. Just make sure the place can accommodate your guest list. If the guest list is huge, you can rent out a hall. If it’s an intimate party, then even a restaurant would suffice. However, if you’re renting out a place, learn about their food and decor policies and about the sound systems in place.

3. Create a guest list.

Create a guest list based on the honoree’s personality. If the honoree is an introvert, consider only inviting a small group of close and intimate friends. However, if the honoree loves crowds and is an outgoing person, feel free to invite a larger number of people. You can also consider inviting friends from various stages of life, and seeing them all together could be a special memory for your loved one.

Make sure you let everyone know the party will be a surprise. And be sure the invitations are discreet.

4. Plan the date and time.

Once you’ve decided on the theme, the location, and the guest list, start thinking about the date and time. The most important consideration here is to choose a time and date that’s convenient for most people’s schedules or whenever most of them are likely to be available, like a weekend evening. 

A lot of people think they must have the party on the date of the birthday, but that’s not necessarily true. Hosting a party a day or two before may even aid you in the surprise element of the party because the honoree surely won’t be expecting it. 

5. Pick the activities and entertainment.

Activities and entertainment lie at the heart of any party. This is true, especially for birthday parties, to keep your guests engaged and to create a memorable night. The activities and entertainment in the party can be tied to the party theme, or you can go for more general activities. 

Consider including various games, karaoke sessions, live music, speeches, or a photo montage. If it’s a kid’s party, consider adding classic games like pin the tail on the donkey, musical chairs, or balloon animals. For an older audience, you can include a trivia night or an escape room for teens. You can also set up a photo booth. Finally, hiring clowns, jugglers, or other such entertainers is also a popular choice for birthday parties.

6. Choose the food.

A birthday celebration cannot be complete without a delicious cake. Whether you choose to buy it or bake it yourself, make sure it reflects the taste of your loved one. In addition to the cake, having food and refreshments at a birthday party is a must. If it’s a kid’s party, you can serve standard cupcakes, candies, cookies, and juice. Or you could modify the treats based on the party theme.

If it’s an adult party, you can choose to serve quick and easy recipes like canapés, charcuterie boards with cheese and crackers, chips and dips, pinwheels, or mini-sandwiches. You can also consider asking friends or family for help in terms of food prep. Just make sure you ask them to bring the food before the party starts so you have time to set everything up. Finally, you can also hire a catering service or choose a restaurant as your venue to avoid cooking altogether.

7. The element of surprise.

Last but not least is the element of surprise. Naturally, the element of surprise is the most significant part of a surprise party. Throughout the planning process, you must make sure you’re discreet to not give anything away. You can use codewords or codenames, and of course, only involve the people you can trust to keep a secret. 

Make sure you decide on the big reveal well in advance so all the guests are aware of what to do on the actual day. You could go the classic route of lights off and jumping out to surprise the honoree. You can also have all the guests hiding behind the furniture and have them jump out as the honoree enters the room, followed by them breaking out into the “Birthday Song.” You can also invite the honoree out to a casual dinner and then have the guests lined up, ready to greet them. Whatever you decide to do, try to choose what you think your loved one would like the most.

Conclusion:

Creating the best surprise birthday party is all about meticulous planning and secrecy. Hosting a surprise birthday party is a huge honor that requires a lot of effort and is something that would show your loved one you’re willing to go above and beyond to celebrate their special day. So, get ready to harness your creativity and throw a party that’ll be remembered for years.

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